When a loved one is diagnosed with Alzheimer’s or another form of dementia, finding the right memory care community is a top priority — but understanding how to pay for memory care can feel overwhelming. At ONELIFE Senior Living, we know that planning for long-term care is a complex process, especially for families navigating these financial decisions for the first time.

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This guide explains the most common ways to pay for memory care, from private pay options to government programs and financial assistance resources. Whether your loved one joins us or finds care elsewhere, we’re happy to help you explore the solutions that best fit your family’s needs and budget.

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Understanding Memory Care Costs

Memory care communities offer specialized care, secure environments, and enriching activities designed for seniors with Alzheimer’s and other forms of dementia. This level of specialized care often costs more than traditional assisted living.

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What’s Included in Memory Care Costs?

• 24/7 trained caregiver support
• Medication management
• Secure accommodations to prevent wandering
• Cognitive enrichment programs
• Meals and housekeeping
• Family support and communication

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At ONELIFE Senior Living, the cost of memory care ranges by community, and includes care services and meals — but every family’s financial situation is different, and we want to help you explore all potential funding options.

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1. Private Pay Options

For many families, private pay is the primary method of covering memory care costs. This involves using personal savings, retirement income, or family contributions.

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Common Private Pay Sources

• Personal savings and investments
• Pensions and Social Security
• Home sale proceeds or home equity lines of credit (HELOC)
• Family support, where multiple loved ones contribute financially

💡 Tip: Families often combine private pay with other funding sources to help extend their resources.

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2. Long-Term Care Insurance

If your loved one has a long-term care (LTC) insurance policy, it may cover a portion of memory care expenses. Policies vary, so it’s important to review coverage details — including daily benefit amounts, coverage limits, and eligibility triggers.

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How We Can Help

At ONELIFE Senior Living, we’re happy to help families review policies and determine if their coverage applies to memory care.

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3. Veterans Benefits

If your loved one is a veteran or the surviving spouse of a veteran, they may qualify for the VA Aid and Attendance benefit, which can provide monthly financial assistance to help cover the cost of memory care.

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Basic Eligibility Requirements

• Served at least 90 days of active duty, with at least one day during wartime.
• Requires assistance with daily living activities like bathing, dressing, or mobility.
• Meets income and asset limits.

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What is Aid and Attendance?

Aid and Attendance is an enhanced pension benefit available to veterans and surviving spouses who need help with daily living activities such as bathing, dressing, toileting, mobility, and eating. This benefit is not a simple cash stipend, but rather a guaranteed income that can help pay for care services, including memory care communities.

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Who is Eligible?

To qualify for Non-Service-Connected Disability Pension with Aid and Attendance, the following criteria must be met:

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• The veteran must have served at least 90 days of active duty, with at least one day during a wartime period (see authorized periods below).
• The veteran or surviving spouse must show limited net worth, which is defined as net income (gross income minus qualifying medical expenses like care costs and insurance premiums) and assets totaling less than $159,240 (assets do not include a personal residence on 2 acres or less, personal vehicles, or personal belongings).
• Medical documentation is required to show the veteran or spouse needs assistance with activities of daily living (ADLs) such as bathing, dressing, toileting, transfers, eating, and mobility.

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2025 Monthly Aid & Attendance Rates

For 2025, the VA special rate for Aid and Attendance can provide:

• Single Veteran: $2,358.00 per month
• Married Veteran: $2,795.00 per month
• Veteran Couple (both qualifying): $3,740.00 per month
• Surviving Spouse: $1,515.00 per month

These funds can be applied toward the cost of memory care, assisted living, or in-home care services.

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Authorized Wartime Service Periods

To qualify for this benefit, veterans must have served at least one day during these authorized wartime periods:

• World War I: April 6, 1917 – November 11, 1918
• World War II: December 7, 1941 – December 31, 1946 (Merchant Marines: December 7, 1941 – August 15, 1945)
• Korean War: June 27, 1950 – January 31, 1955
• Vietnam War:
  • November 1, 1955 – August 4, 1964 (for veterans who served in Vietnam itself)
  • August 5, 1964 – May 7, 1975 (all service)
• Persian Gulf War: August 2, 1990 – present (no official end date set)

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Service-Connected Disability Compensation

For veterans with a direct service-connected injury, disability, or illness resulting from their military service, Service-Connected Disability Compensation may be available. This is a separate benefit from Aid and Attendance, and does not require financial need.

Surviving spouses of service-connected veterans may also be eligible for Dependency Indemnity Compensation (DIC).

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💡 We understand that navigating VA benefits can feel overwhelming. Our team is happy to connect you with trusted partners, including Elder Veterans Legal Aid Group, who specialize in helping families apply for and access these important benefits.

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4. Medicaid (For Those Who Qualify)

While most ONELIFE Senior Living communities are private pay, some families may qualify for Medicaid programs that cover memory care at other communities.

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Medicaid Eligibility

• Income and asset limits apply.
• Applicant must require a nursing home level of care.
• Benefits vary by state, so it’s important to work with a Medicaid specialist.

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💡 If your loved one may qualify for Medicaid, we’re happy to guide you toward appropriate resources and communities.

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5. Bridge Loans & Short-Term Financing

For families needing immediate care but waiting on benefits approval, home sales, or asset liquidation, bridge loans can provide temporary funding.

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What is a Bridge Loan?

A bridge loan is short-term financing designed to cover senior care costs while longer-term funding is secured. These loans can be useful when:

• Selling a home
• Accessing long-term care insurance payouts
• Waiting for VA or Medicaid approval

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💡 We can refer families to trusted financial advisors who specialize in elder care financing options.

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6. Life Insurance Conversions

Some families are unaware that certain life insurance policies can be converted into a Long-Term Care Benefit Plan, which pays monthly toward memory care costs.

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Which Policies May Qualify?

• Whole life policies
• Universal life policies
• Convertible term policies

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💡 A financial advisor can help review your loved one’s policy to see if this option is available.

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7. Local & Nonprofit Resources

In some cases, families may qualify for local grants, nonprofit assistance, or charitable programs to help offset the cost of memory care. These programs vary widely based on location and eligibility criteria.

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How We Can Help

At ONELIFE Senior Living, we’re always happy to connect families with local aging services, nonprofit programs, and financial counseling resources to explore every option.

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ONELIFE Senior Living Community Heroes Discount

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At ONELIFE Senior Living, we are proud to honor the everyday heroes who dedicate their lives to serving others. As part of our Community Heroes Discount, we proudly offer special savings to first responders and teachers who are exploring assisted living and memory care for themselves or a loved one.

Whether you’re a retired firefighter, police officer, paramedic, EMT, or educator, we believe your service should be recognized — and we want to express our gratitude by helping make compassionate care more affordable.

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How to Learn More

Each ONELIFE Senior Living community offers its own version of the Community Heroes Discount, so we encourage you to reach out directly to a community near you to learn more about available savings and eligibility.

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💜 Thank you for your service, dedication, and lasting impact on our communities. We are honored to serve you.

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We’re Here to Help — Even If We’re Not the Right Fit

At ONELIFE Senior Living, we understand that not every family can afford private pay memory care — and that’s okay. Even if our community isn’t the right financial fit, we’re committed to helping families find quality care that works for their budget. Whether it’s connecting you with Medicaid-friendly communities, guiding you to VA benefits specialists, or sharing nonprofit resources, we’re here to help.

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Need Guidance? Let’s Talk.

Our compassionate team is ready to answer your questions and help you explore all available funding options — no matter where your journey takes you.

📞 Contact us today to schedule a personal consultation.

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Memory Care in Phoenix, Salem, Springfield, Beaverton, Cottage Grove, Sacramento, San Jose, Vernon Hills, Oxnard and Henderson

Choosing the right memory care facility for your loved one is a crucial decision. By understanding what memory care entails and considering the factors that make a great memory care community, you can ensure your loved one receives the best possible care. At ONELIFE Senior Living, we are here to support you every step of the way.

ONELIFE Senior Living offers exceptional memory care facilities in various locations throughout the country, including:

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Phoenix, Arizona - Shadow Mountain Memory Care

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Salem, Oregon - Battle Creek Memory Care

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Springfield, Oregon - The Rawlin at Riverbend Memory Care

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Beaverton, Oregon - Waterhouse Ridge Memory Care

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Cottage Grove, Oregon - Middlefield Oaks Senior Living

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Sacramento, California - The Woodlake Senior Living

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San Jose, California - Sonnet Hill Senior Living

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Santa Rosa, California - The Reserve at Fountaingrove Memory Care

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Vernon Hills, Illinois - The Laurel at Vernon Hills Memory Care

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Henderson, Nevada - Vineyard Henderson Memory Care

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Oxnard, California - The Vistas at Oxnard Senior Living

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Our communities are dedicated to providing a supportive and enriching environment for residents with memory loss. With personalized care plans, engaging activities, and compassionate staff, we strive to make our memory care communities a place where residents feel at home. Contact us today to learn more about our memory care facilities, and let us help you find the perfect home for your loved one.